Debunking 7 Myths About Working Moms

By Saroni Chakravarti | August 5, 2019

Working or not, mothers don’t have it easy. What probably makes their lives harder is a gaggle of assumptions that work to pull them down or pit them against each other. Time to debunk these.

There’s probably not a better time to be a working mother. Organisations these days, are upping their ante to come up with policies and benefits like opening crèches, giving working mothers time off, flexible work-from-home options etc. that go a long way in retaining female employees. Mothers, working or not don’t have it easy. Juggling a mountain of responsibilities whether at work or home and raising tiny humans is no mean feat. What probably pulls women down all the more is probably a gaggle of assumptions floating around about working moms and their stay-at-home counterparts. Let’s debunk some of them today and call them out for what they are-myths!

Myth#1: Working Mothers Are Selfish:

If you thought we just made this up, try Googling ‘working mothers…’ and this is the first phrase that pops up. Managing a twin load of responsibilities at home and work and ensuring that your kids have everything they need to grow up to be smart and compassionate human beings are not quite how one would define ‘selfish’. Working moms care about their families no less than stay-at-home moms and want to advance in their careers no less than working dads.

Additional Reading: How To Save Up For Your Maternity Leave

Myth#2: All Working Moms Look Down Upon Non-Working Moms:

It’s not fair to pit one group against the other when neither approach to motherhood is right or wrong. Women get that bringing up children is a full-time job and while for some, dedicating their entire time to that task is rewarding, some others may choose to juggle it with their careers. In recent times, the whole concept of ‘stay-at-home moms’ has undergone dramatic changes. Companies nowadays offer working moms the choice to work-from-home for the greater part of the week so working mothers are also partial stay-at-home moms.

Myth#3: Working Moms Are Better Parents:

There might be a ton of research out there that suggests that children of working mothers go on to have more successful careers, however, this might be because of the examples these mothers are setting than their parenting abilities. Working mothers are not endowed with magical powers that make them better parents than their stay-at-home counterparts. Both kinds put in an equal amount of effort and hard work in bringing up their kids.

Additional Reading: Maternity & Health Insurance: What You Need to Know

Myth#4: Working Moms Can’t Ace It At Work And At Home:

Women are great multitaskers. Whether it’s feeding their baby while working on an office presentation, planning their families’ investments or picking up groceries during their morning runs, any work they do throughout the day involves some level of multitasking. There’s absolutely no proof to suggest that women can’t ace at work while bringing up kids. A little bit of multitasking and a whole lot of planning and organisation can help her do that and then some.

Myth#5: Kids Of Working Moms Have Behavioural Issues:

Research suggests that qualities of a great parent include being loving and affectionate and having good communication skills, a high level of attentiveness and respect of autonomy. There’s no evidence that suggests that these traits are particularly lacking in working moms than stay-at-home moms. Children of working moms grow up seeing men and women contribute equally to the household. This goes a long way in defining their perception of working women and influences their attitudes when they encounter working mothers later in their work lives.

Additional Reading: Women, Take Charge Of Your Finances!

Myth#6: Working Mothers Aren’t As Committed To Their Jobs As Others:

Working mothers indeed take more time off than any other group of employees. That’s because when the child gets sick, it’s usually the mother who has to take the day off to be with her child. Managing a twin load of responsibilities can get pretty stressful at times and it’s only human that this will affect her health at some point. However, this in no way means that moms don’t care about their work and are any less dedicated to their job.

Myth#7: Working Moms Have It Harder:

It can, indeed, get pretty stressful for working moms to manage responsibilities both at home and at work with equal panache. After all, there are only so many hours in a day and working moms have to do everything humanly possible to optimise those hours in terms of productivity, spending quality time with their kids and finishing all their chores. But it can get equally stressful for stay-at-home moms given the challenges of housework and taking care of a child at the same time.

Motherhood is a full-time job and whether you choose to manage it along with a career or stay at home is entirely your choice. We’re all unique in terms of our capabilities, strengths and aspirations so it’s not fair to generalise and pit one approach as being better than the other.

Motherhood on the cards? While you’re busy gearing up for it emotionally, don’t forget that you’ll need to be financially prepared as well. Need help with investments? We’ve got your back.

All information including news articles and blogs published on this website are strictly for general information purpose only. BankBazaar does not provide any warranty about the authenticity and accuracy of such information. BankBazaar will not be held responsible for any loss and/or damage that arises or is incurred by use of such information. Rates and offers as may be applicable at the time of applying for a product may vary from that mentioned above. Please visit www.bankbazaar.com for the latest rates/offers.
Category: Budgeting Funding studies Juggling debts Managing funds Money Management UCN Women
Saroni Chakravarti

About Saroni Chakravarti

Saroni loves all things quaint and old world- be it art, music or cinema. She has a special knack for spotting the weirdest traits in people and can't for the life of her understand why she attracts the worst co-passengers. Despite her cynical exterior, she still hopes for a world that will be free from discrimination and cruelty. When she's not spending her day commuting, she can be found watching funny videos, reading, and sending out needy vibes to strays around her.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *